Prevailing, Not Relishing with Rebecca Coda and Rick Jetter Transformative Principal 195

Proactive paranoia is good paranoia Call people to the carpet in a professional way.

Rebecca Coda and Rick Jetter are the authors of Escaping the School Leaders Dunk Tank: How to Prevail When Others Want To See You Drown.

  • How to prevail instead of getting bummed out.
  • Depersonalize the situation.
  • Some reason they have ego, fear, jealousy, etc.
  • Didn’t start with you, started with someone or something else.
  • Alignments - aligning to different people.
  • How people gather allies.
  • If you’ve got an army behind you.
  • Moving on
  • How to deal with politicking.
  • Nonviolent communication
  • Call people to the carpet in a professional way.
  • 4 step process for nonviolent conversation.
  • Script, rehearse, prepared for curveball reactions
  • Said with care and patience.
  • Don’t want to be alone without a witness.
  • You’re not effective if you’re feeling this way.
  • Teacher Bullies
  • How to be a transformative principal? It comes down to being willing to do what is right.
  • How to be a transformative principal? You’ve gotta try!


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